Sunday, August 9, 2015
Reminisce
When I was young I used to believe that love is something you hold on to for the rest of your life.
Growing up with this kind of thinking makes a person sentimental, melodramatic in some points of life and others exaggerate this to a different extent.
I always have a question to the adults and ask them things that needs explanation. After hearing their explanation I try to gist the information and process it.
Sometimes I discover the answers through experience and prove that the explanation of the adult is valid or not.
At an early age I like eating sour tasting food like calamansi (lime), a spoonful (or more) of Tang (orange powdered juice drink). I also enjoyed eating Indian mangoes, the unripe ones and green mangoes they’re the best.
That is my weirdness as a child. You have at least one as well.
Growing up is not easy. There are things in your environment that hits you. Different people, classmates, teachers, so on and so forth. Sometimes you feel that the world you live in, is so complex.
Remember your first crush? Do you still have a crush on them?
I remember. I don’t have a crush on them anymore (you can also say that, “I don’t crush them anymore!’’). My crush can be dead, became fat, bald, grotty, knackered, paunchy and in the end they become grotesque.
You tend to loose that emotion. The puppy love (that puppy is now a dog). You grow, you understand the things that has transpired in your life and tend to choose the wise decision.
Remember your first love? The love that can haunt you down for the longest time. It may be your first relationship, first heart break, first (censored), and the best part is, first moving-on process from a break-up.
Do you remember the jerk who broke your heart? Who could have thought that you’ll fall to that loving, kind, sweet smile of a person who will eventually give you a heartache. Headache after the heartache. Moving on took a long time. Prying emotions. You’re in pain beyond repair. You’re asking yourself if they loved you back. Why did they leave you? Why is your love not reciprocated?
Now I don’t care if that love was reciprocated or not. I live for myself and my dream. Whether that person who left you, still thinks of you. Nobody cares. I forgave the person. They just made a choice for themselves. I should respect that part. No explanations needed.
There is formula to moving-on. It is a package. You cannot do one. It is a tandem. Duo if you like.
It is called forgive and forget.
Honestly speaking, one cannot forget because we are given the gift of memory retention. But because it takes two to tango. It will be easy if you let forgiveness comes in.
Forgiving will help you ease the pain and aids forgetting the burden that you feel. Until it becomes lighter eventually.
And remember this, I used to say this to my friends. “When you hate me, I’m always in your mind. When you love me, I’m always in your heart. Both works for me”.
Learn from those words. So don’t hate.
People should stop the Cop and Criminal setting.
Cheaters are like criminals. They are caught on the act but they continue to deny. The one who believes in love, is like a cop. They caught the act, but still wants an explanation until they go to a court case scenario.
What will you do next? How will you look for love?
There is mantra for love.
“I will love. Be loved and will be lovable forever”.
Just say it every morning when you wake up. Post it on your wall, your fridge, bathroom and vanity mirror. You'll see results.
Everybody is looking for love. Everybody wants to be loved. There are different kinds of love. Love here, love there, love more.
If you’re looking for a relationship and wants to be loved. Don’t look for just love. Pray. Look for “true love”. True love is simple, pure, trustworthy, reciprocated, no need for words.
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Monday, July 28, 2014
Why is Sailor Mercury sleeveless?
Thursday, January 26, 2012
Cheesy and Naughty Pick-up Lines
Kung ikaw ay puno at ako ay baging, pwede ba kitang gapangin?
Wag kang mahihiya kung ika'y nananabik..
Batas ka ba?kahit ano kasing sabihin mo sinusunod ko eh.. KAHIT ANO.. :)
You are like my lollipop.. Ang sarap mo i-lick!
I've lost my teddy bear... Do u want to be my teddy bear for tonight?
Para kang capuccino sa Starbucks, masarap na, HOT pa!
U gotta be a parking ticket or something coz u got the word FINE written all over ya!
Nasa Greenwich ba tayo? Sobrang CHEESY kasi natin eh!
Q: Why do men ask for a woman's hand in marriage?
A: Because they are tired of using their own.
Higad ka ba? Kinakati kasi ako pag nandyan ka eh!
School ka ba? ang sarap mo kasing pasukan eh..
Chickenjoy ka ba? ang sarap mo kasing papakin!
Langis ka ba? para kasing ang dulas mo eh..
Since pareho tayong mahilig sa Math, mag-multiply na tayo!
Alam mo para kang chicken sa KFC, finger lickin' goooood!
Always start your day with a lot of... S E X S - SMILE, E - ENERGY, X - XCITEMENT so make S E X a daily habit, and you"ll always be SUCSEXFUL in LIFE.
Do you like mathematics? If so, add a bed, subtract your clothes, divide your legs and we can multiply!
Are you Jamaican? Because ur Jamaican me crazy!!!
Aanhin pa ang katabi kung wala namang nangyayari?
Alam mo para kang sofa.. Sarap mo upuan!
Nakasound setup ba sasakyan mo? bumabayo ka eh!
Wag kang mahihiya kung ika'y nananabik..
Batas ka ba?kahit ano kasing sabihin mo sinusunod ko eh.. KAHIT ANO.. :)
You are like my lollipop.. Ang sarap mo i-lick!
I've lost my teddy bear... Do u want to be my teddy bear for tonight?
Para kang capuccino sa Starbucks, masarap na, HOT pa!
U gotta be a parking ticket or something coz u got the word FINE written all over ya!
Nasa Greenwich ba tayo? Sobrang CHEESY kasi natin eh!
Q: Why do men ask for a woman's hand in marriage?
A: Because they are tired of using their own.
Higad ka ba? Kinakati kasi ako pag nandyan ka eh!
School ka ba? ang sarap mo kasing pasukan eh..
Chickenjoy ka ba? ang sarap mo kasing papakin!
Langis ka ba? para kasing ang dulas mo eh..
Since pareho tayong mahilig sa Math, mag-multiply na tayo!
Alam mo para kang chicken sa KFC, finger lickin' goooood!
Always start your day with a lot of... S E X S - SMILE, E - ENERGY, X - XCITEMENT so make S E X a daily habit, and you"ll always be SUCSEXFUL in LIFE.
Do you like mathematics? If so, add a bed, subtract your clothes, divide your legs and we can multiply!
Are you Jamaican? Because ur Jamaican me crazy!!!
Aanhin pa ang katabi kung wala namang nangyayari?
Alam mo para kang sofa.. Sarap mo upuan!
Nakasound setup ba sasakyan mo? bumabayo ka eh!
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Your animal sign is Dragon
Your year name is Mou Ch'en
The impetuous male Dragon.
Captivating, handsome, poised, you also have a high opinion of yourself. Your extreme assurance sometimes makes you exceedingly insufferable, pretentious and conceited. However, your belief in yourself will make you successful for you will face the challenge courageously and with fortitude. In relationships, you blaze through hearts and occasionally will stray, sometimes creating bad feelings without realizing it. However, you are caring when you love someone though you may come across as dictatorial and repressive. You need constant adulation and appreciation from your partner. For you, your partner is your prize, to be displayed at your arms.
The earth male Dragon.
Frighteningly obsessive, you are strong, fascinating, faithful and an egotist.
Your animal sign is Monkey
Your year name is Ken Shen
The impudent male Monkey.
Generous, outrageous, rowdy, cunning, affectionate, delightful, you love an attentive audience and would be the most attentive lover, not mate, for you cannot bear to be 'shackled'. You are a spendthrift who would not ask for alms giving if you can help it. You'd rather go hungry than to ask for charity. You are entertaining and a risk-taker who would be in trouble because of all the unnecessary risks you took. However, your crafty character would get you out of trouble time and again.
The metal male Monkey.
Attractive, lovable, lovable yet occasionally quarrelsome, you are a formidable opponent who hides your motives behind that winning smile of yours.
Your animal sign is Dog
Your year name is Zen Hsu
The faithful male Dog.
Loving, devoted, reliable, fussy, diligent yet pessimistic and cowardly, you prefer to air your views fluently than to act on them. If urged, you'd withdraw. You are a good worker but lacking in ambitions. However, if prodded, you'd get going on it. Fearing rejection, you work hard at friendships, being loyal and devoted. In your relationship, you'd look after your partner well although you need to be encouraged time and again.
The water male Dog.
Pleasant, friendly, good-looking, cowardly, impulsive, you need a strong mate to keep you from being too cynical. There's a good chance you're always taken for a ride and your intentions as interfering. You're a good friend, only don't let others use that against you.
Dream interpretations
Fingernails cleaned by a friend (Ate Love)- To dream that you are polishing your fingernails, represent glamour; Long fingernails signify difficulties with the opposite sex; short ones predict an unexpected gift. To polish (or varnish) your nails is a warning against impulsive behavior that could lead to a scandal. To painfully bend back or damage a nail indicates a rather long season of discontent. To cut your fingernails signifies achievement in prestige; to file your nails signifies achievement through your own efforts. If you dreamed of biting your nails or of nails bitten to the quick, you may want to consider getting a medical checkup.
Cats-( a friend (Haidz) protected me from a mascot cat)- On one hand the cat is a symbol of female sexuality, and on the other hand, it is the essence of deceit. Seeing a white cat means that you feel great affection for someone. Seeing a two-coloured cat: your feelings are passionate. A black cat is always a warning of impending danger. Watching several cats means that your partner is unfaithful. Dreaming about wild cats: you might have a fight with your neighbours;
The feminine part of yourself. We all have qualities that are masculine and feminine. The feminine aspect represents the positive, creative, emotional self. In mythology cats are associated with the "Goddess". This is a reference to new growth in your life.
Mangoes- The fleshy meat of this succulent fruit is an invitation to sex. If you share a mango, it is a dream of seduction. Once consumed, it is a loving piece of fruit and a soothing aide to deep sleep.
To see or eat a mango in your dream, symbolizes fertility, sexual desires, and lust. Alternatively, the mango may also be a pun to mean "man go" in reference to a relationship in which you should let go and move on.
Carrot- prophesy an unexpected legacy or money windfall; To see a carrot in your dream, signifies abundance and fertility. It may also symbolize a lure as in the pun "dangle a carrot". To eat a carrot in your dream, indicates clarify. You are seeing something more clearly.
Your year name is Mou Ch'en
The impetuous male Dragon.
Captivating, handsome, poised, you also have a high opinion of yourself. Your extreme assurance sometimes makes you exceedingly insufferable, pretentious and conceited. However, your belief in yourself will make you successful for you will face the challenge courageously and with fortitude. In relationships, you blaze through hearts and occasionally will stray, sometimes creating bad feelings without realizing it. However, you are caring when you love someone though you may come across as dictatorial and repressive. You need constant adulation and appreciation from your partner. For you, your partner is your prize, to be displayed at your arms.
The earth male Dragon.
Frighteningly obsessive, you are strong, fascinating, faithful and an egotist.
Your animal sign is Monkey
Your year name is Ken Shen
The impudent male Monkey.
Generous, outrageous, rowdy, cunning, affectionate, delightful, you love an attentive audience and would be the most attentive lover, not mate, for you cannot bear to be 'shackled'. You are a spendthrift who would not ask for alms giving if you can help it. You'd rather go hungry than to ask for charity. You are entertaining and a risk-taker who would be in trouble because of all the unnecessary risks you took. However, your crafty character would get you out of trouble time and again.
The metal male Monkey.
Attractive, lovable, lovable yet occasionally quarrelsome, you are a formidable opponent who hides your motives behind that winning smile of yours.
Your animal sign is Dog
Your year name is Zen Hsu
The faithful male Dog.
Loving, devoted, reliable, fussy, diligent yet pessimistic and cowardly, you prefer to air your views fluently than to act on them. If urged, you'd withdraw. You are a good worker but lacking in ambitions. However, if prodded, you'd get going on it. Fearing rejection, you work hard at friendships, being loyal and devoted. In your relationship, you'd look after your partner well although you need to be encouraged time and again.
The water male Dog.
Pleasant, friendly, good-looking, cowardly, impulsive, you need a strong mate to keep you from being too cynical. There's a good chance you're always taken for a ride and your intentions as interfering. You're a good friend, only don't let others use that against you.
Dream interpretations
Fingernails cleaned by a friend (Ate Love)- To dream that you are polishing your fingernails, represent glamour; Long fingernails signify difficulties with the opposite sex; short ones predict an unexpected gift. To polish (or varnish) your nails is a warning against impulsive behavior that could lead to a scandal. To painfully bend back or damage a nail indicates a rather long season of discontent. To cut your fingernails signifies achievement in prestige; to file your nails signifies achievement through your own efforts. If you dreamed of biting your nails or of nails bitten to the quick, you may want to consider getting a medical checkup.
Cats-( a friend (Haidz) protected me from a mascot cat)- On one hand the cat is a symbol of female sexuality, and on the other hand, it is the essence of deceit. Seeing a white cat means that you feel great affection for someone. Seeing a two-coloured cat: your feelings are passionate. A black cat is always a warning of impending danger. Watching several cats means that your partner is unfaithful. Dreaming about wild cats: you might have a fight with your neighbours;
The feminine part of yourself. We all have qualities that are masculine and feminine. The feminine aspect represents the positive, creative, emotional self. In mythology cats are associated with the "Goddess". This is a reference to new growth in your life.
Mangoes- The fleshy meat of this succulent fruit is an invitation to sex. If you share a mango, it is a dream of seduction. Once consumed, it is a loving piece of fruit and a soothing aide to deep sleep.
To see or eat a mango in your dream, symbolizes fertility, sexual desires, and lust. Alternatively, the mango may also be a pun to mean "man go" in reference to a relationship in which you should let go and move on.
Carrot- prophesy an unexpected legacy or money windfall; To see a carrot in your dream, signifies abundance and fertility. It may also symbolize a lure as in the pun "dangle a carrot". To eat a carrot in your dream, indicates clarify. You are seeing something more clearly.
Friday, August 13, 2010
My favorite scripts from “The Gay Guys Guide to Love” by Ken Hanes
First of all. BELIEVE. Love is possible. Even J. Edward Hoover had a boyfriend
Love is not open-heart surgery, though it can feel like it sometimes. Lighten up.
Stop making excuses. Stop blaming others. All men are not creeps. The good ones are not all taken. You’re not the only decent, single gay guy left on the entire planet.
Being single is not a fault, so no mea culpa self-flagellation. Besides, most guys don’t find bruises physical or emotional-too attractive.
Love is an emotion, not a game. If you want to play a game, try five-card stud. You can bluff to your heart’s desire without giving the other guy heartache.
Soften up a little. If your skin is too tough, Cupid’s arrow will bounce right off.
Don’t fall for these despicable, pernicious, malevolent, heinous, and generally wacko myths about gay love:
Myth: Gay love is wrong.
Reality: Love is love—gay, non-gay, or in between. Don’t let parents, priests, politicians, the press, or your psyche tell you differently.
Myth: Gay relationship threatens family values.
Reality: One, plenty do last. The world is filled with gay couples who have been together twenty, thirty, forty, or more years. Two, the only thing gay males couples are constitutionally unable to do the same as heterosexual couples is to have babies.
Postscript to the above myth. Pardon a little ranting: When straight couple’s relationship fails, it’s because of his/her drinking, inability to commit, infidelity, and so on. In other words, a straight couple’s relationship fails because of personal flaws, not because its participants are heterosexual. But when gay relationship fails, “they” say it’s because gay relationship inherently can’t work. Call this double standard what is: a crock of homophobic crap. End of rant.
Sure, you have an Ideal Physical Type. But types are fantasies, and solid love must be grounded in reality and compatibility. Expecting reality to measure up to your fantasy is a recipe for disaster. So don’t allow your ideal physical type to limit you.
Love is not open-heart surgery, though it can feel like it sometimes. Lighten up.
Stop making excuses. Stop blaming others. All men are not creeps. The good ones are not all taken. You’re not the only decent, single gay guy left on the entire planet.
Being single is not a fault, so no mea culpa self-flagellation. Besides, most guys don’t find bruises physical or emotional-too attractive.
Love is an emotion, not a game. If you want to play a game, try five-card stud. You can bluff to your heart’s desire without giving the other guy heartache.
Soften up a little. If your skin is too tough, Cupid’s arrow will bounce right off.
Don’t fall for these despicable, pernicious, malevolent, heinous, and generally wacko myths about gay love:
Myth: Gay love is wrong.
Reality: Love is love—gay, non-gay, or in between. Don’t let parents, priests, politicians, the press, or your psyche tell you differently.
Myth: Gay relationship threatens family values.
Reality: One, plenty do last. The world is filled with gay couples who have been together twenty, thirty, forty, or more years. Two, the only thing gay males couples are constitutionally unable to do the same as heterosexual couples is to have babies.
Postscript to the above myth. Pardon a little ranting: When straight couple’s relationship fails, it’s because of his/her drinking, inability to commit, infidelity, and so on. In other words, a straight couple’s relationship fails because of personal flaws, not because its participants are heterosexual. But when gay relationship fails, “they” say it’s because gay relationship inherently can’t work. Call this double standard what is: a crock of homophobic crap. End of rant.
Sure, you have an Ideal Physical Type. But types are fantasies, and solid love must be grounded in reality and compatibility. Expecting reality to measure up to your fantasy is a recipe for disaster. So don’t allow your ideal physical type to limit you.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Wind and Water
Fū
風 Fū or kaze, meaning "Wind", represents things that grow, expand, and enjoy freedom of movement. Aside from air, smoke, and the like, fū can in some ways be best represented by the human mind. As we grow physically, we learn and expand mentally as well, in terms of our knowledge, our experiences, and our personalities. Fū represents breathing, and the internal processes associated with respiration. Mentally and emotionally, it represents an "open-minded" attitude and carefree feeling. It can be associated with will, elusiveness, evasiveness, benevolence, compassion, and wisdom.
Sui
水 Sui or mizu, meaning "Water", represents the fluid, flowing, formless things in the world. Outside of the obvious example of rivers and the like, plants are also categorized under sui, as they adapt to their environment, growing and changing according to the direction of the sun and the changing seasons. Blood and other bodily fluids are represented by sui, as are mental or emotional tendencies towards adaptation and change. Sui can be associated with emotion, defensiveness, adaptability, flexibility, suppleness, and magnetism.
Just found some wonderful meaning to my personality or per say for a Libran Water Dog.
In my Chinese zodiac I was born under the Water Dog in the year 1982;
In my Western zodiac Im a Libra.
風 Fū or kaze, meaning "Wind", represents things that grow, expand, and enjoy freedom of movement. Aside from air, smoke, and the like, fū can in some ways be best represented by the human mind. As we grow physically, we learn and expand mentally as well, in terms of our knowledge, our experiences, and our personalities. Fū represents breathing, and the internal processes associated with respiration. Mentally and emotionally, it represents an "open-minded" attitude and carefree feeling. It can be associated with will, elusiveness, evasiveness, benevolence, compassion, and wisdom.
Sui
水 Sui or mizu, meaning "Water", represents the fluid, flowing, formless things in the world. Outside of the obvious example of rivers and the like, plants are also categorized under sui, as they adapt to their environment, growing and changing according to the direction of the sun and the changing seasons. Blood and other bodily fluids are represented by sui, as are mental or emotional tendencies towards adaptation and change. Sui can be associated with emotion, defensiveness, adaptability, flexibility, suppleness, and magnetism.
Just found some wonderful meaning to my personality or per say for a Libran Water Dog.
In my Chinese zodiac I was born under the Water Dog in the year 1982;
In my Western zodiac Im a Libra.
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